“Of all things, love is the most potent.” – Maria Montessori
Humans have an innate desire to connect, to experience dynamic relationships with one another. At around 18 months, there are notable changes in cognitive skills that help real friendships blossom. The toddler becomes more consciously aware of themself and others. Watching toddlers making friends for the first time is truly a delight! In our environment, children show excitement every morning when they see their friends and even though some of them cannot pronounce their friends’ names yet, they point to their friends with a big smile on their faces, pat them on the back (or on their heads) and offer hugs. During circle time, children look to sit closer to their friends and they love walking while holding hands together.
Grace and courtesy is one of the most important areas in our Montessori curriculum. Grace being the outer expression of our inner selves as observed in body language and movements: facial expressions such as smiles, eye contact, tone of voice, inflection of the voice, body movements and the actual words used to express ourselves. Courtesy is the manners given for human interaction. Neither grace nor courtesy are instinctive. They are acquired. The desire to acquire social skills is a fundamental need in a child in order for them to become fully integrated into their culture and fully adapted to society. In our Toddler level the constant, daily lessons in this area are used through intentional modeling rather than specific lessons presented, as children will encounter in our Primary levels. It’s truly amazing to observe how your children have grown in this area, despite their young age. It’s SO wonderful!
On another note, based on Valentine’s day, children had a blast preparing for our Friendship Celebration! They really enjoyed experimenting with shaving cream and food coloring to create beautiful marbled hearts to decorate their Valentine’s day bags, they practiced their food preparation skills by spreading sunbutter on a delicious apple ring and decorated it freely with sprinkles to create “donuts” and they seemed so joyful sharing their lovely valentines with each of their friends! During circle time that day, we talked about how hugs make our brain happy and it was just so amazing to see how each child chose a friend to offer a hug. We read and reflected on one of the most beloved books from your children lately called: Kindness Makes Us Strong by Sophie Beer and we finished our morning with an epic dance party with heart balloons!
Love was and IS still in the air and we couldn’t be more thankful!
Enjoy the pics,
Mrs. Hood and Ms. Maria