“If teaching is to be effective with young children, it must assist them to advance on the way to independence. It must initiate them into those kinds of activities which they can perform themselves and which keep them from being a burden to others because of their inabilities. We must help them to learn how to walk without assistance, to run, to go up and down stairs, to pick up fallen objects, to dress and undress, to wash themselves, to express their needs in a way that is clearly understood, and to attempt to satisfy their desires through their own efforts. All this is part of an education for independence”.
Dr. Maria Montessori
Toddlers are naturally eager to learn these things. “Do it myself” might well be the refrain for the toddler years!
Often times, our day-to-day lives make for less than ideal circumstances to help our children achieve the independence they crave. Our homes are not optimized around a little person with his height of less than 3 feet: Objects are hard to reach, too heavy, or too big for little hands to use. Our days are not set up to move at his speed: We rarely just happen to have 10 spare minutes to wait while our almost 2-year-old puts on his jacket!
Yet, enabling a toddler to become more independent has huge benefits, both near-term and long-term. Power struggles decrease when a child feels more in control. Temper tantrums are less frequent when a toddler is busy doing things for himself rather than resisting his parent’s efforts to do things for him! A child who feels capable because he can act in the world, without needing to rely on Mom or Dad for every little thing, is a child who is developing self-confidence.
This week we focused on modeling how to put on a jacket and the daily routine of changing into indoor shoes at the beginning of the morning have been introduced! Children seem to love to practice these procedures and the joy on their faces after accomplishing these tasks is just great to see!
On another note, Knick Knack Paddywhack illustrated by Emily Bolam has been the most popular book this week. Children love to repeat books and this one is a daily request, multiple times during the morning, by your children!
We are also pleased to hear some of our students able to sing the whole song in Spanish, La Lechuza, which we introduced a couple of weeks ago. If you are interested in learning the lyrics of this song to sing it with your child, please feel free to let us know! We will be more than glad to share them with you!
Global Culinary Night is Thursday, November 8th from 6:30-8:00pm.
This is a FWM entire family event.
Grab your “passport” and travel along with us as we visit countries near and far, sampling foods at each stop! This community event is for FWM families to gather together and share a unique dish from their cultural, ethnic, or regional background while also sampling dishes from other FWM families’ cultures.
We hope everybody had a great Halloween! Stay sweet!