A large part of our work with young children is to lay the foundation for developing emotional intelligence—the ability to recognize, understand, manage, and express emotions. Cultivating emotional intelligence in children is crucial for their social and emotional well-being.
Teaching children to identify and name emotions is the first step in teaching children about their own emotions and the emotions of others. Being able to identify and name their feelings can help children to feel heard and understood. Introducing children to a diverse range of emotions through books, stories, and discussions will develop their emotional vocabulary. Since children often mimic the actions and attitudes of the adults around them, demonstrating healthy ways to express and manage emotions is crucial – such as taking deep breaths to calm down when feeling frustrated. One of our favorite books this month was In My Heart: A Book of Feelings by Jo Witek. We have read it numerous times, and it has inspired discussions about times when we’ve felt a variety of different emotions. The children especially enjoy hearing the anecdotes that I share with them about times when I have felt brave, happy, sad, etc.
The children decorated their Valentine’s Day bags this week, and we’ve been reading Valentine’s books that celebrate friendship. They were so thrilled to exchange Valentines! We shared a group snack of berries and whipped cream, and marshmallow cereal treats. Thank you, parents for providing the snack and decorations for their bags!
We also played the Compliment Game, where we pass around a heart and whoever is holding it when the music stops receives a compliment from a classmate. This teaches children how to politely give and receive a compliment. They love it!
We asked the children what love means. Their answers are sure to bring a smile to your face. (A few friends were either missing, or weren’t ready to share)
Aira- You can’t see love, but you can feel it inside your body.
Anaya- Love is giving my Mom and Dad and sister a picture with a heart.
Ava- Love is what you give to people and fill up their buckets and that means your heart makes other people feel happy.
Cameron- I love my family and I hug them.
Divya- Love is Mommy because she cares about me all the time.
Eliana- Love is giving kisses to Mommy and Daddy.
Eliot- Love is when I hug my Mommy after school and it feels like I’m never going to be afraid.
Ethan- Love means that your heart is happy!
Hayes- Love is all about loving people and giving hugs and sharing toys.
Ivy- I love you and my Mommy and my little singing rabbit that I’m saving for Easter.
Katie- Love is something that you feel, and it feels happy!
Luke- Love makes me feel happy.
Matteo- Love is a feeling and it fills up your bucket.
Olive- I love my friends and family and cute pets and all the flowers- especially roses, poppies, and sunflowers.
Olson- You can love on your Mom and on your Dad but you can’t see it!
Oscar- My Mom loves me and Valentine’s Day means love.
Otto- Mommy and Daddy got married because they love each other.
Rayna- I love Mommy and snow.
William- Love means giving hugs.
Wishing you all a lovely week,
Christine & Fatima