“If teaching is to be effective with young children, it must assist them to advance on the way to independence. It must initiate them into those kinds of activities that they can perform themselves and that keep them from being a burden to others because of their inabilities. We must help them to learn how to walk without assistance, to run, to go up and down stairs, to pick up fallen objects, to dress and undress, to wash, to express their needs in a way that is clearly understood, and to attempt to satisfy their desires through their efforts. All this is part of an education for independence”.
Dr. Maria Montessori
Toddlers are naturally eager to learn these things. “Do it myself” might well be the refrain for the toddler years! Our day-to-day lives often make for less-than-ideal circumstances to help our children achieve the independence they crave. Our homes are not optimized around a little person with a height of under three feet: Objects are hard to reach, too heavy, or too big for little hands to use. Our days are not set up to move at their speed: We rarely just happen to have ten spare minutes to wait while our almost two-year-olds put on their jacket!
Yet enabling a toddler to become more independent has huge short-term and long-term benefits. Power struggles decrease when a child feels more in control. Temper tantrums are less frequent when toddlers are busy doing things for themselves rather than resisting their parent’s efforts to do things for them! A child who feels capable because they can act in the world without needing to rely on grown-ups for every little thing is a child who is developing self-confidence.
We have introduced the routine of changing into indoor shoes at the beginning of the morning! At this point, most of the children have learned to recognize their space and continue to work hard in the skill of removing their shoes, coordinating their hands to get the new shoe on, and pulling and closing the velcro tabs. In addition, they have been practicing the skill of buttoning and unbuttoning, brushing teeth, and learning how to put on their jacket independently. Children received a lesson using what we called the “fliparoo” trick. Please see the video below on the lesson, and please support your child at home in practicing this skill.
We also introduced a special work that quickly became the most popular work of the week: Handwashing. This is a multitasking activity that builds independence, fine motor skills, and focus. Set up with child-sized materials; the handwashing station allows toddlers to complete each step independently, boosting confidence. This activity involves a sequence—wetting hands, applying soap, scrubbing, rinsing, drying, transferring soapy water into a bucket, disposing of soapy water in the sink, and drying materials —which strengthens memory and concentration. It also offers a sensory experience, as toddlers feel the cool water, slippery soap, and soft towel, deepening their awareness. Handwashing is a practical, calming activity that supports both physical and cognitive development. A big shout out to the Mica family for gifting our class this perfect little table!
As always children enjoyed the food tasting lesson of the week. This time we explored cranberries and most of them really enjoyed some cranberry sauce !
Lastly, a new popular piece of equipment was introduced in the movement area: A sensory spinning chair. Spinning on a chair provides intense vestibular input, which helps toddlers develop their sense of balance and spatial orientation. This stimulation can be calming for some children and can improve their ability to focus and attend to tasks. Spinning on a chair requires coordination and motor planning, which can help toddlers develop their gross motor skills. It can also improve their core strength and stability, which is important for posture and overall physical development. The repetitive motion of spinning can have a calming effect on toddlers, helping them regulate their emotions and reduce feelings of anxiety or frustration. To say children LOVE this chair is an understatement!
Enjoy the weekend,
Mrs. Hood and Ms. Patty