“Of all things, love is the most potent.” – Maria Montessori
Humans have an innate desire to connect, to experience dynamic relationships with one another. At around 18 months, there are notable changes in cognitive skills that help real friendships blossom. The toddler becomes more consciously aware of themselves and others. Watching toddlers making friends for the first time is truly a delight! In our environment, children show excitement every morning when they see their amigos and love practicing their names. Younger toddlers, still working on their expressive language, like to point to their friends with big smiles and do a little dance of happiness.
Grace and courtesy is one of the most critical areas in our Montessori curriculum. Grace is the outer expression of our inner selves as observed in body language and movements: facial expressions such as smiles, eye contact, tone of voice, inflection, body movements, and the actual words used to express ourselves. Courtesy is the manners given for human interaction. As we all know, neither grace nor courtesy are instinctive but acquired. This is why in our Toddler environment, we use constant, daily lessons in this area through intentional modeling rather than specific lessons presented, as children will encounter at our Primary levels. It’s truly amazing to observe how your children continue to grow in gentleness, respect for each other, care and expressions of kindness, etc., despite their young age. It’s SO wonderful!
Based on our Emotional intelligence studies, this week, children also had the opportunity to use the emotion cards as individual work using a table mirror. The children seem to love to observe the picture cards and copy the facial expressions in the mirror. With the older toddlers, we also use this work as an enrichment of vocabulary activity by establishing conversations with the child and wondering together what they think happened to the children in the picture. Why are they feeling that way? Oh! The stories they come up with are just so great!
Some of the most beloved books by your children lately has been: In My Heart by Jo Witek, The Feelings Book by Todd Parr, and especially Calm Down Time by Elizabeth Vedick. With the help of this book, children practiced the importance of breathing deeply when encountering difficult emotions. We practice by encouraging the toddlers to “Smell the flowers” (inhale) and “blow the candles” (exhale). We also encourage our students to use the teepee as our calm-down area to get some space and learn to regulate themselves.In this area children have a faux sheepskin rug, cushy pillows and often they will have a variety of calming items like sensory bottles, stretchy string fidgets or liquid motion bubblers to support this process. For your children, this is one of their favorite places in our classroom. A place to decompress when needed or just have some space! I highly recommend you creating a calm-down area at your home, especially if your child struggles with tantrums.
On another note, children had a blast celebrating friendship on Valentine’s day and they were so focused on perfecting their spreading skills while creating “donuts” using apple rings, sunflower butter and delicious sprinkles! They also enjoyed sharing their valentine’s with their friends and having fun in an epic balloon dance party! During circle time that day, we talked about how hugs make our brain happy and it was just so amazing to see how each child chose a friend to offer a hug!
For food tasting lesson we explored Cauliflower and tangy lemons! Sour is definitely a new word in their vocabulary!
Lastly, we finished this busy week with a little 100 day of school celebration where children baked delicious lemon blueberry scones! Children loved them so much that we wanted to send you all the recipe. Click here to get it!
Enjoy the pics!
Mrs. Hood and Ms. Mollie