Building Bridges Through Books

Building Bridges Through Books: The Magic of Fraser Woods Montessori’s Book Buddies Program

In the warm, light-filled spaces of Fraser Woods Montessori School in Newtown, Connecticut, something beautiful unfolds each week as younger and older students come together for a shared love of reading. The school’s Book Buddies program exemplifies the Montessori philosophy of mixed-age learning, creating meaningful connections that extend far beyond the pages of a book.

This innovative program demonstrates why Fraser Woods Montessori School has been a leader in authentic Montessori education throughout Fairfield County for over 55 years, serving students from 15 months through 8th grade.

A Community United by Stories

The excitement is palpable when Fraser Woods’ kindergarten students are paired with their Book Buddies from the Upper Elementary classroom. As Mrs. Sargeant notes, “Our children were ecstatic about this endeavor and are eager to meet up with them again next week.” This enthusiasm captures the essence of what makes the Book Buddies program so special—it transforms reading from a solitary activity into a shared adventure.

The program brings together students from different grade levels, with kindergarten students paired with 5th graders, creating natural mentorship opportunities that benefit both age groups. In comfortable reading nooks, outdoor benches, and cozy classroom corners throughout our 8-acre campus in Newtown, these partnerships bloom as older students guide younger ones through the wonderful world of literature.

The Power of Reading Aloud in Montessori Education

Research consistently shows that reading aloud to children provides numerous cognitive and developmental benefits. In the Book Buddies program at Fraser Woods Montessori, older students read to younger students, helping them become familiar with reading and literacy while developing reading fluency, comprehension, and vocabulary through this 1-on-1 pairing.

Equally important is the practice young readers receive when they read aloud themselves. The National Reading Panel found that “repeated oral reading substantially improves word recognition, speed, and accuracy as well as fluency” and that guided oral reading exercises have “an appreciable positive effect” on reading achievement metrics. Studies demonstrate that oral reading practice also has the potential to boost learners’ reading comprehension, with research showing that children understand more through the process of oral rather than silent reading.

For optimal benefits, experts recommend that children engage in reading aloud practice for at least 15 minutes daily. This regular practice helps move words into automatic recognition, freeing up cognitive resources for comprehension. Research evidence shows that both reading a correct word aloud and accumulating multiple exposures to a word help move words into memory so readers can recognize them automatically in future readings.

When Upper Elementary students read books like “The Berenstain Bears New Pup” or other age-appropriate selections to their younger buddies, they’re not just sharing a story—they’re modeling proper reading techniques, expression, and the joy that comes from engaging with literature while simultaneously strengthening their own fluency skills. The younger students absorb not only the content but also the rhythm and flow of language, building crucial pre-reading skills, and may even take turns reading portions aloud themselves, further reinforcing the learning process.

Developing Leadership and Empathy Through Mixed-Age Learning

Mixed-age learning is a cornerstone of authentic Montessori education, and the Book Buddies program at Fraser Woods Montessori School demonstrates this principle beautifully. Older students become role models and mentors, developing leadership skills by guiding and supporting their younger buddies both in and out of the classroom. This responsibility helps Upper Elementary students mature in ways that traditional same-age interactions might not provide.

The program also nurtures critical social-emotional development. Students develop important social-emotional skills such as communication, patience, empathy, and understanding. Older students serve as role models to demonstrate healthy ways to regulate their emotions, and their younger buddies learn best practices for discovering and managing their own emotions.

This approach aligns perfectly with the Montessori philosophy that recognizes children learn best when they can teach and mentor others, creating a collaborative learning environment that benefits all participants.

Building School Community in Newtown’s Premier Montessori Environment

A Book Buddy program fosters community and connection amongst different age groups. The older students help make the youngest students feel like they are a part of the school community. Together, they develop respect, empathy, responsibility, and understanding. This sense of belonging is particularly important in a school environment, where younger students can sometimes feel overwhelmed or disconnected.

At Fraser Woods Montessori School in Newtown, CT, this community building aligns perfectly with the Montessori approach to education. The Fraser Woods Montessori curriculum is designed as a bridge between different levels, where each individual’s social, intellectual and emotional skill level is respected, and the Book Buddies program embodies this philosophy beautifully.

As an independent day school serving families throughout Fairfield County, Fraser Woods creates an inclusive community where students from toddler programs through middle school interact naturally and meaningfully.

Enhancing Listening and Responsibility Skills

The benefits of the program extend beyond just the act of reading. Younger students improve their listening and comprehension skills by hearing stories read aloud and discussing them with their older buddies. Concurrently, older students also improve their listening skills, as they become responsible mentors for their younger peers, making sure that they are heard and respected.

Older students learn to take responsibility for their younger buddies, which can translate to better personal responsibility in other academic and social-emotional areas. By serving as a role model, the older buddy also demonstrates responsibility to their younger buddy.

These skills are essential components of child-centered learning, where students develop not just academic capabilities but also the social and emotional intelligence needed for lifelong success.

Creating Lasting Memories and Love for Literature

Fraser Woods Montessori emphasizes taking excellent care of books, as they are special and delicate – some are even ancient, as they are some of the books that have been treasured since childhood. It is an absolute joy to witness the impact of literature on every child. This reverence for books and reading creates an environment where literature is valued and respected.

The program creates positive associations with reading that can last a lifetime. When a kindergartener snuggles up next to a fifth-grader to hear a beloved story, they’re not just learning about plot and characters—they’re learning that reading is something to be shared, enjoyed, and celebrated.

This love for learning and literature is one of the hallmarks that make Fraser Woods stand out among private schools in Fairfield County, creating lifelong learners who carry their passion for knowledge into their futures.

A Model for Cross-Age Learning in Montessori Education

The success of Fraser Woods’ Book Buddies program demonstrates the power of intentional cross-age interactions in educational settings. By creating structured opportunities for students of different ages to learn together, Montessori schools can foster the kind of authentic mentorship and community building that enhances the educational experience for all involved.

As captured in the warm, inviting spaces where these reading partnerships unfold—whether in comfortable indoor reading areas with colorful rainbow arches and cozy seating, or on outdoor benches throughout our beautiful 8-acre campus where natural light filters through—the Book Buddies program at Fraser Woods creates an environment where learning is joyful, collaborative, and deeply meaningful.

The program stands as a testament to the idea that Montessori education is not just about individual achievement, but about building community, fostering empathy, and creating connections that enrich the learning experience for everyone involved. In sharing stories, these students are also sharing themselves—building bridges that will serve them well beyond their school years.

Experience Mixed-Age Learning at Fraser Woods Montessori

The Book Buddies program is just one example of how Fraser Woods Montessori School in Newtown, Connecticut, creates meaningful learning experiences that extend beyond traditional academic instruction. Our authentic Montessori approach serves children from 15 months through 8th grade, fostering the whole child’s development in a nurturing, supportive environment.

Ready to see mixed-age learning in action? We invite families throughout Fairfield County to visit our campus and observe how programs like Book Buddies create lasting connections and inspire a love of learning that extends far beyond the classroom.

Discover Fraser Woods Montessori School

  • Location: 173 South Main Street, Newtown, CT 06470
  • Programs: Toddler (15 months) through Middle School (8th grade)
  • Philosophy: Authentic Montessori education with mixed-age learning
  • Campus: Beautiful 8-acre natural setting
  • Community: Serving Fairfield County families since 1968

Schedule a campus tour to experience the magic of Montessori mixed-age learning and see why families throughout Newtown and Fairfield County choose Fraser Woods for their children’s educational journey.

Learn more about our programs or contact us to discover how your child can benefit from the unique learning environment at Fraser Woods Montessori School.


Ms. Mollie: Hello May! Welcome Grandparents and Special Friends!

What a fun week we have had here at Fraser Woods! We started our week off with a visit to baby chicks from Mrs. Lopes’ classroom! We also got to meet one of the chicks and practice our patience in observing and touching the chick! The children were absolutely delighted!

The children have been helping to plant, both our planters and on our toddler playground! We love exploring insects, dirt, and the blooms our flowers have. The Very Hungry Caterpillar by Eric Carle has been an instant hit; we read it daily by request! The favorite word in the room right now is “chrysalis”, and the children love talking about what he eats!

The highlight of the week has been preparing and having our grandparents and special friends in our classroom! The children were so happy. We had a buzz of excitement from both grandparents and children, and overall joy! We are so grateful that so many grandparents and special friends could join us and have a little glimpse into the magic of Fraser Woods Montessori!

With Full Hearts,

Ms.Mollie, Ms.Lizette and Ms.Anabelle


Mrs. Hood: Awe, Wonder and Big Smiles!

Another vibrant week has flown by, and I can’t believe how fast time is moving! Here’s a peek into all the wonderful things we’ve been up to:

Apart from exploring new works in the environment, our little learners keep delving into the fascinating world of butterflies. With match-work cards and model objects, the children  learned about the stages of a butterfly’s life cycle. Egg, Caterpillar, Chrysalis and Butterfly are vocabulary words that we have used over and over in our environment.  We observed  our own caterpillars munching on the food and were super thrilled to watch as the caterpillars formed “J” shapes, signaling the start of their metamorphosis, then we got to watch them as they  transformed  into chrysalises! To say that our environment  has been filled with awe and wonder, is an understatement.

Through lively discussions, we explored the importance of butterflies in the insect family and learned about their body parts—head, thorax, abdomen, six legs, antennae, and wings. Children have also explored and learned about  grasshoppers, ladybugs, ants, dragonflies, flies and bees through object models and live insects as we find during our outdoor explorations.

On another note, This week  we welcomed a delightful new addition to our classroom—a dollhouse! It quickly became a favorite spot for language work as the children learned about different parts of a house and the names of family members. With so much  enthusiasm, they explored each room, identified familiar objects, and interacted with the tiny family members. The dollhouse sparked creativity and imagination, becoming a beloved centerpiece of our classroom.

Of course, our week wouldn’t be complete without some sensory exploration and celebration. We savored the sweet delights of cherries during our food tasting lesson, and what better way to celebrate than with a special birthday? We joyously marked the milestone of our youngest student turning two years old, a reminder of how swiftly time flies when surrounded by love and learning.

Please, find below the butterfly dance the children have been learning this week. They really enjoy the song and ask for it often. I encourage you to put the volume up as ask your children to show you the dance steps, I bet they would love that!

Enjoy the weekend,

Mrs. Hood and Mrs. Mollie


Mrs. Hood’s: Amigos!

“Of all things, love is the most potent.” – Maria Montessori

Humans have an innate desire to connect, to experience dynamic relationships with one another. At around 18 months, there are notable changes in cognitive skills that help real friendships blossom. The toddler becomes more consciously aware of themselves and others. Watching toddlers making friends for the first time is truly a delight! In our environment, children show excitement every morning when they see their amigos and love practicing their names. Younger toddlers, still working on their expressive language, like to point to their friends with big smiles and do a little dance of happiness.

Grace and courtesy is one of the most critical areas in our Montessori curriculum. Grace is the outer expression of our inner selves as observed in body language and movements: facial expressions such as smiles, eye contact, tone of voice, inflection, body movements, and the actual words used to express ourselves. Courtesy is the manners given for human interaction. As we all know, neither grace nor courtesy are instinctive but acquired. This is why in our Toddler environment, we use constant, daily lessons in this area through intentional modeling rather than specific lessons presented, as children will encounter at our Primary levels. It’s truly amazing to observe how your children continue to grow in gentleness, respect for each other, care and expressions of kindness, etc.,  despite their young age. It’s SO wonderful!

Based on our Emotional intelligence studies, this week, children also had the opportunity to use the emotion cards as individual work using a table mirror. The children seem to love to observe the picture cards and copy the facial expressions in the mirror. With the older toddlers, we also use this work as an enrichment of vocabulary activity by establishing conversations with the child and wondering together what they think happened to the children in the picture. Why are they feeling that way? Oh! The stories they come up with are just so great!

Some of the most beloved books by your children  lately  has been: In My Heart by Jo Witek, The Feelings Book by Todd Parr, and especially Calm Down Time by Elizabeth Vedick. With the help of this book, children practiced the importance of breathing deeply when encountering difficult emotions. We practice by encouraging the toddlers to “Smell the flowers” (inhale) and “blow the candles” (exhale). We also encourage our students to use the teepee as our calm-down area to get some space and learn to regulate themselves.In this area children have a faux sheepskin rug, cushy pillows and often they will have a variety of calming items like sensory bottles, stretchy string fidgets or  liquid motion bubblers to support this process.  For your children, this is one of their favorite places in our classroom. A place to decompress when needed or just have some space!  I highly recommend you creating a calm-down area at your home, especially if your child struggles with tantrums.

On another note, children had a blast celebrating friendship on Valentine’s day and they were so focused on perfecting their spreading skills while creating “donuts” using apple rings, sunflower butter and delicious sprinkles! They also enjoyed sharing their valentine’s with their friends and having fun in an epic balloon dance party! During circle time that day, we talked about how hugs make our brain happy and it was just so amazing to see how each child chose a friend to offer a hug!

For food tasting lesson we explored  Cauliflower and tangy lemons! Sour is definitely a new word in their vocabulary!

Lastly, we finished this busy week with a little 100 day of school celebration where children baked  delicious lemon blueberry scones! Children loved them so much that we wanted to send you all the recipe. Click here to get it!

Enjoy the pics!

Mrs. Hood and Ms. Mollie

 


Ms Marissa: A Pumpkin Filled October!

Welcome to our pumpkin patch!  There are pumpkins everywhere in our class. Having pumpkins in the classroom provides many opportunities for the children to observe and introduce basic science and math concepts.

In Practical Life, we have pumpkin spooning, pumpkin pouring, pumpkin scrubbing, and pumpkin grasping. In Science, we learned about the parts of a pumpkin and the pumpkin’s life cycle. We compared pumpkins and categorized them as small, medium, and large. We are using our five senses to determine what pumpkins look, smell, feel, sound, and taste like.

On Tuesday, we had a small in-class Harvest Celebration where each child had the opportunity to visit our “pumpkin patch” and pick their own pumpkin, make a yarn spider web, and have a fun snack.  Last but not least, meet Skelly, our veggie skeleton prepared by the kindergarten students.  It is always so wonderful to hear the children say they don’t like this vegetable or that one and then devour all of it! All of this was possible because of parents helping behind the scenes.  A huge shout out to everyone for sharing their time and energy with us to provide these wonderful opportunities for the children. We are very grateful and truly blessed.

Wishing you a week filled with peace and love.

Marissa & Sue


Setting the Table for Independence. Pause, Connect, Partner

By David Newman, Head of School

I recently read an article sent in the Family and Student Newsletter from my daughter’s college that resonated with me both as a parent and an educator. The article was directed toward parents of freshmen, and while we have a junior in college, my wife and I are certainly not experts and thus benefitted from its wisdom.

The intent of the article was to provide guidance for parents on how to support their students in realizing their own path to independence – effectively allowing them to struggle, emphasizing that we should support this process through listening and offering empathy without trying to solve every problem. After all, their solution might be different than ours. The college suggested the following advice to us: Stop, Drop, and Roll.

Stop = Take a deep breath. Are they truly asking me to fix the problem? More likely, they want me to listen and allow them to talk through it. Don’t panic.

Drop = Don’t take action or give in-depth advice. Ask productive questions that might help them come to a solution on their own, and acknowledge that struggling is a part of life’s journey.

Roll = Be a cheerleader. Stay informed. Make them feel like they can do this.

As a parent, this made perfect sense and served as a good reminder. As an educator, it struck a chord as it is advice I have often given to parents throughout the years – albeit not as succinctly.  

It got me thinking about the work we do at FWM, and the times when students struggle. How do our parents handle these situations, and in what ways do we promote actions that are in the best interest of the child’s learning journey? In college, the stakes may be quantifiably more consequential, but that does not mean that a 6-year-old’s challenges are any less anxiety-producing to both the student and the parent. A college student is more self-aware and more able to problem solve simply because of the “tools” they have in their kit from life experience. A 6-year-old does not have a tool kit. Yet, the goal is still the same. Therefore, while the concept applies, the execution needs adjusting for school-aged children because we are setting the table for future independence. To apply this thinking to the FWM community, I reframed my thinking of Stop, Drop, and Roll this way: Pause, Connect, and Partner.

Pause: When your child comes home and shares something about their day that caused them to be upset, was challenging, or simply doesn’t seem right, take a moment to absorb what they are telling you. Does this sound possible? In what context might this have taken place? Is it possible that this is developmentally appropriate? Listen to your child and try to provide context that reassures them they are safe.

Connect: Reach out to their teacher to establish a line of communication. Explain what your child shared with you and allow the teacher to acknowledge and then provide their perspective of what they saw…or are seeing. Often, children at these ages have trouble seeing beyond themselves. Reaching out for more context from the school can often answer questions that you may have as a parent and enable you to better support your child.

Partner: We often talk of the partnership between the school and our families formed when you send your child to FWM. When your child faces a challenging situation, the school can be an excellent partner. We have seen many students face challenges along their journey and have engaged with them to help them navigate difficult times. Each child is unique in how they react to and meet their challenges, but there are few situations we have not experienced.

It is important to remember that the school and our families share the most important goal, and that is to do what is best for our children. We may not always face challenges with the same perspective, but if we commit to a thoughtful partnership, we will more than likely set the table for our children’s future independence and a successful and meaningful learning journey.


Happy Summer!

Now that the end of the school year is here and I take a moment to reflect on all that we have accomplished together, I am humbled by all we achieved. Our FWM community came together, each day to celebrate the children! 

This week is no exception. It has been an incredible week of celebrations of community.  From our 8th year commencement ceremony Thursday evening, to our Kindergarten moving up ceremony, and our bridge crossing ceremonies for Toddler,  LE and UE, this has been a memorable week.

Thank you for sharing your beautiful children with us. They make our community what it is because they are absolutely overjoyed to be together at school every day.

Here is some information for you as the school year ends:

  • Teachers will send Summer Learning Resources and a Suggested Summer Reading List to all families next week.
  • Please encourage your children to read over the summer. Summer vacation allows us to relax, but is also a critical time to ensure students keep learning.
  • New school year instructions and supplies lists will be emailed to families in August. This communication will include a welcome from your child’s teacher.  

Wishing you and your family a happy, healthy and fun-filled summer!


The End of the School Year is Approaching!

Another school year is quickly coming to an end. For those of you with children in toddler, primary, and elementary, I’m sure you’re amazed at how your children blossomed as the year has gone by. We experience both joy and tears as our elder Montessori students in the class move up to the next levels. 

As Montessori teachers we cannot end the school year without celebrating the classroom community. It is just as important to bring closure to the year as it was to set the tone when we began the year with your beautiful children. There are important rites of passage to recognize and celebrate. We stay true to our traditions of celebrating the community and bringing closure to the school year by honoring the students’ achievements with recognition of the time spent in their current level.

For the parents of our graduating 8th years, you are probably filled with mixed emotions of joy and bittersweet sentiment as your child prepares to leave FWM and move on to high school. 

When I talk to parents, I often hear them say how quickly time “flies” and how it seems “just like yesterday” their children began their educational journey at FWM. 

With 8th year graduation, moving up and bridge-crossing ceremonies planned for the week ahead, our students, their parents, and their teachers have much to celebrate!

Although we had to cancel tonight’s picnic, the children will be able to enjoy some of the festivities during the school day. The caricature artist was able to be here during the day today. Our 8th year students spent the afternoon getting their drawings done, in color, including a beautiful whole class caricature! 

Next week, on Tuesday, the ice cream truck we intended to have at the picnic will be here for Field Day!